{"id":821,"date":"2026-04-30T00:36:47","date_gmt":"2026-04-30T00:36:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/?p=821"},"modified":"2026-04-30T00:36:48","modified_gmt":"2026-04-30T00:36:48","slug":"there-is-no-true-reprieve-from-parenting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/?p=821","title":{"rendered":"There is no true reprieve from parenting."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Today, a small reprieve from parenting\u2014<br>though that word never quite fits.<br>You are always a parent,<br>even in absence, even in silence,<br>even when distance stretches into something permanent.<br>That thread does not break.<br>It only softens, hums quietly beneath everything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Still, you learn to lean away, sometimes\u2014<br>to step, gently, into yourself again.<br>Into creation. Into breath.<br>Tonight, I lean into poetry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I love the licking flames,<br>their crackle\u2014like lips smacking in hunger,<br>the wood burning bright with eager heat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I love the cat, settled on my lap,<br>mottled, soft, coiled in quiet listening<br>to the language of fire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I love the room\u2014four walls and an antechamber,<br>lanterns of colored glass, a Turkish rug,<br>two guitars resting, three chairs waiting, a simple jug.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I love the warmth, loosening muscle from bone,<br>pulling cold from its stubborn corners,<br>drawing silence out of stillness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I love the man, bent over his phone,<br>Wordling, absent and present at once,<br>feeding the fire with instinctive hands,<br>reading Sam Neill in between.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I love the night garden beyond\u2014<br>touched here and there with yellow light,<br>a leaf, a stubborn bloom, something watching back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I love the cushions, spread wall to wall,<br>an open invitation to fall,<br>to stretch out fully, to finally stop.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And I love the children on the walls\u2014<br>forever smiling\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Today, a small reprieve from parenting\u2014though that word never quite fits.You are always a parent,even in absence, even in silence,even when distance stretches into something <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/?p=821\" title=\"There is no true reprieve from parenting.\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":822,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-821","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-home"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/821","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=821"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/821\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":823,"href":"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/821\/revisions\/823"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/822"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=821"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=821"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paxtonhegmann.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=821"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}